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I am a single mother of a 5 year old son, his father has never beenin his life and never wanted to see him.  He cannot be located to get nay child support or anything, I have tried and never gotten anything.  I do work and have worked for the same company for 5 years, I am a secratary for a school district, so I dont make alot of money.  I am able to pay my bills, and give us a place to live barely, sometimes the bills are late.  But my vehicle starts some days and some days it doesnt.  i dont have the money to buy food, thats where are main problems are, i buy food we dont get our bills paid for, then we dont have a place to live.  but the summer is here and the bills are going to get higher, where I cant even pay for them.  I cannot affor the gas to get back and fourth.  My son has to have batteries for his hearing aid, which I dont let him use all the time so I can save the batterys for when they are needed.  I just need help to back it all the way through the end of the month.  I did apply for foodstamps and they allowed me ten dollars so the last year I have gotten ten dollars and its used.  I just need help, i dont fit in the poor group because I do have a job, I just cant stretch the money to last the hole month.  My son dont usually get to eat much for breakfeast, but we try to stretch all the food.  I will only eat lunch most of the time.  So i can just feed him.  We are happy though, and I will get it done.  It would be nice if I had someone that could help.  I got into debt thats where all my problems started, because when I lived with his dad, I took care of his three children and he worked, but I had great credit, so I got a brand new truck in my name and whatever else we needed or thought we did.  Then our house burned down, and I used credit cards to buy the kids clothes and school supplies and christmas presents for everyone.  Then after the house burned down he quit working and wouldnt get a job, so I went and was sub teaching, wasnt making much.  Everything just got farther and farther behind.  I took a large loanout to pay everything off except truck and let it go back, and I just cant get caught up. 

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Rosie327

Since your main issue seems to be affording food, maybe you can get some leftovers from the school cafeterias?  If you have a local farmers market and you go just before closing time you can get food for practically nothing because they don't want to have to haul it back home.  Also check into local food banks and food pantries.  Best wishes, Rosie www.BenefitsByRosie.com

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